Today has been spent trying to figure out why Nancy had no palliative doctor assigned.
I called Hospice at May Court and they have been beyond helpful - they right away told me they would hold a bed for her. This is literally like winning the lottery. She will be going in tomorrow some time. This was not an easy decision - it hardly ever is, as everything becomes very final once Hospice is mentioned.
I cannot stress enough how incredibly happy I am that Nancy is going to May Court. Not only because Nancy will be given the absolutely best care anyone could ask for at this stage in her life, but also for the boys - Mark, Adam and John. From now on it will only be about all the love!
For those of you who are far away - this is the link to May Court - I'm sure you can tell that Nancy deserves this. I love her dearly. Hospice at May Court
Nancy herself is ok but very tired. This is a hard thing to accept - going to Hospice is always a hard thing to say "yes thank you" to - but if Nancy is like the many other people who come into May Court, I can tell you all that she will relax within hours and be able to spend her last moments here on Earth in a calm, loving environment with the best possible care.
Love,
B
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