Adam has said it well - and I too believe that this is no longer about us but about Nancy finishing the journey she has been on since middle March ...
I was with Nancy this morning and there is a big shift in apprerance and behaviour - and there is no doubt we are looking at a short amount of time before she will be gone and we have to continue life without her.
I started this blog initially so that everyone could get a daily update - and I know you all understand that at this point it is hard to give any updates because Nancy is in charge now - she will pass when she's ready. It could be days still and very little will change between now and then. I promise you that even with no or very little information I will still write a little every day - because I know how hard it is to wait for news and wonder what is happening.
Between the boys and myself we will try to be with Nancy as much as possible - I would move into the chair if I could ... but I have to look after my own family too. My heart is sore and tears never far away - I am sure you all know that my love for this remarkable woman is very strong. I give her everything I have when I'm with her and have no doubt she knows she is very loved by all.
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Birgitte - your are wonderful. You give what you can and more. Take care of yourself too.
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